@CidHigwind
I think I'm just afraid that my own console could be broken.
I have no way of giving a guarantee, BUT, in my opinion your console is not broken, and you were just unlucky to have to configure it (or, if you are optimistic, consider that: "you were lucky to have an opportunity to learn how to configure everything, and now you don't even need help" )
But, about the joystick, the available options are to change the drivers by testing the 3 available, and choose the most functional.
If you use an original joystick this should not happen, it is impossible for developers to test ALL possible hardware, so some driver incompatibilities end up happening...
I don't think I can help you, but it may be useful to read:
https://recalbox.gitbook.io/documentation/tutorials/controllers/configuration-test/manually-connect-a-bluetooth-control
https://forum.recalbox.com/topic/22838/playstation-adapters-fix-request
https://forum.recalbox.com/topic/22613/impossible-de-pairer-mon-controller-ps3-usb-ok-bt-ko