@zing I'm not offended at all!! I have to thanks everyone who is trying to help me.
Well, I've tried a fresh reinstall and it's all the same (big menu and no sound):
Then I put again in CEA 1 (or 2) HDMI and the default "global.videomode".
But now I've tried to plug a headphone on my raspberry and I can hear the music and sounds by the headphone but nothing in my TV set. I'm really confused!