so i found out my roms are not an issue it's Recalbox 7.0.1 on pi4, those roms run perfect on my pi3 recalbox 7.0.1 .. Also i took the liberty as i said to put Retropie latest on my pi4 and those same roms donkey kong, mk, they run perfectly fine..
so this sound issue is only on pi4 recalbox 7.0.1, and it happens on other systems as well even NES, i have the same issue where the sound just hisses ,skips , pops , crackles, i took a video of it and place it here on my google drive.
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1YExb_NTXyeLAHIAKwETkbH8-cFa0NUqd/view?usp=sharing